The Calendar
Two parties every weekend — from sultry afternoon socials to full-on night takeovers. Members get priority booking on everything below.
Each weekend we host an afternoon and an evening event — very different energy, same high standards
Sundays — 12 PM to 6 PM
Relaxed pool parties and mingling sessions. Lower lights, softer music, conversation-friendly. A gentler introduction to the lifestyle for first-timers and verified singles.
Fri & Sat — 10 PM to 4 AM
Full themed takeovers. Professional DJs, dress code strictly enforced, play spaces open. This is what Velvet is famous for — go all in or don't come.
Quarterly — Special Dates
NYE, Halloween, Anniversary, Summer Solstice. Black-tie, multi-room production, limited tickets. Members get first refusal before public release.
Live calendar — tap any event to reserve your spot
First time at a lifestyle event? Here's how your evening will flow
Arrive anytime after doors open. Present your QR ticket and government ID at the host desk. Our door team will review the dress code and walk you through house rules if it's your first visit.
Coats, bags, and phones go into a private locker. Complimentary towels and robes are available. Phones are strictly prohibited beyond the bar — no exceptions.
Start at the main bar. Our hosts are happy to make introductions. Take your time — there's no rush and no expectations. The first hour is always for conversation.
The play areas open at 11 PM on night parties. Couples lounge, private rooms, and social spaces are clearly marked. Green means social, red means do-not-disturb. Always ask before joining.
The questions we get most often from newcomers
No. Most events are open to screened guests. Members enjoy discounted door rates, priority booking, and access to members-only galas. Singles must complete our verification process before purchasing tickets.
Upscale and sexy. Think cocktail attire, lingerie-under-outerwear, fetish glam, or themed costume depending on the night. No jeans, sneakers, athletic wear, or work clothes. Each event listing above specifies the exact theme.
We cap single-male attendance at every event to maintain a comfortable ratio. Single men must apply, complete a short video call, and purchase tickets in advance — no walk-ins. Single women are welcome with advance registration.
Tickets are non-refundable but fully transferable up to 24 hours before the event. If you can't make it, you can transfer your ticket to another screened guest through your member dashboard.
Paid valet is available at the door for $20. There's also a municipal lot one block east. We strongly recommend rideshare — there's zero tolerance for drinking and driving.
Absolutely not. Phones are locked up at the door and photography is prohibited anywhere in the venue. This is the single most important rule at Velvet and is strictly enforced. Violators are banned for life.
Our host team is happy to recommend an event based on your experience level and what you're hoping to explore. Discreet, judgement-free, and always confidential.